"Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"
~ Mahatma Gandhi
All these years, the most prominent word in every discussion surrounding menstruation has to be 'THEY'. Eventually, what comes out is a false message that nobody pictures 'menstruation' as a taboo anymore; it was only 'THEY' who did.
And here we are, back to reality in 2024 where menstruation is still not considered worth an open discussion. So, let's be a generation that won't be remembered as 'THEY'.
Divided by States, United by Myths
Across various states in India, even today, cultural myths and taboos surrounding menstruation persist and are deeply ingrained in societal beliefs and practices.
In South India, including states like Tamil Nadu, Karnataka, and Kerala, cultural practices often revolve around celebrating a girl's first menstruation. While these rituals may seem progressive on the surface, they again regard 'Motherhood' as the ultimate pursuit of a female's life. Speaking of Bihar and Jharkhand, menstruating women are often secluded from family members, prohibited from touching food items and restricted from participating in household activities.
The conditions in remote locations are even worse. In parts of Manipur, menstrual blood is believed to possess powerful properties, with some customs involving the tasting of the first drop of menstrual blood or the exchange of bloodied cloths for protection. Conversely, in Assam and many other parts of Central India as well, menstruating women may face restrictions on their movements and activities, including limitations on entering temples or participating in religious ceremonies, due to the belief in their impurity during menstruation.
Men as Allies: Catalysts for Change in Menstrual Equality
Men are the decision-makers in majority of households in India. With their different roles - as partner, brother, father, companion etc, they can impact a woman's experience regarding menstruation.
According to NFHS-4 data, only 50% of married women in India are able to choose their preferred menstrual products or go out to buy them. This means that the other half is devoid of it which, in all rational terms, is a basic right. Your understanding and support can end this issue once and for all.
Unity in Action: A Call for Collective Change
Menstrual health and hygiene awareness transcends gender boundaries. It is a human rights issue that demands collective action and solidarity. Let us unite in breaking down the barriers surrounding menstruation and creating a world where every individual can live with dignity and without shame or stigma.
In conclusion, no more future talks, focusing on problems at hand; we should help create a more equitable and compassionate present for all.
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